Military dreams and the Smith Family

Military dreams and a middle child. I’ve got a kid that I need a little bit of prayer for. He’s not in any kind of trouble. Gaelan is my hard worker who has a dream to serve his country. He’d love to be able to enlist in the National Guard and become a soldier. However, there’s a challenge in achieving this particular dream.

Military Dream

Gaelan didn’t have it easy in his early years, struggling with asthma as a child, however, he’s been off the medication for some time now. He works out like a DOG in the gym, lifting weights and doing cardio. Gaelan is in great shape. However, the doctors look at his medical file and what he used to be sick with and they’d just as soon throw him out in the street. I don’t understand.

I know Gaelan called the recruiting sergeant the other day and asked how it was going. The sergeant, who’s been on Gaelan’s side from day one, was really honest, which I would expect from a sergeant. He said, “Gaelan, it’s really going to take something just shy of a miracle to pull it off at this point.” Gaelan is a young man of strong faith in God and in miracles that only God can pull off. He’s all in on the pursuit of a military career.

Yes, Gaelan does have a backup plan, which includes a trip to the police academy. I think his heart is in the military, especially because his grandfather, Greg Bourgond, had an outstanding career in the military (Navy). I would love nothing more than to see this hard-working young man get where he wants to be. Will you say a prayer that God will make a way where there doesn’t appear to be one?

(By the way, our God specializes in making a way where there is no way. If he can convert Saul into the Apostle Paul, ANYTHING is possible).

Other family happenings

Really excited because I took next week off from work. I looked back through my freelance journalist records and realized I haven’t taken time off in at least three years. It may be longer than that. The reasoning behind my request is Derrick and Talisa are coming in from South Dakota to spend a week here.

How dumb was I the last few years when those two came to town and I didn’t take time off work? What has more worth? Extra money in the bank or time with family? It’s called priorities, Chad, and maybe it’s time to change some of yours?

One new thing I’m trying out is itching that scratch I’ve had in recent years. That itch is to go exploring and see new places. It finally occurred to me that I don’t have to jump on a plane to see new things. I’ve toured a couple parks in Minneapolis and had a great time photographing things I haven’t seen before and making memories that way.

Vulnerability

Working from home is harder than I thought it would be. Don’t get me wrong, I’m enjoying what I do. The work is rewarding and you’d have to make an offer I couldn’t refuse to make me give up the flexibility in my schedule.

However, you just don’t get out much to meet people when you live your life on the phone. Any advice at all on how to get out of the house and make a friend or two? I really think that sounds dumb coming out of my mouth but it’s an honest question. Can you forget how to make and/or be a friend to another human being?

Especially guys. Why is it so hard for guys to make friends and not try to be “John Wayne?” Where does that urge come from?

A Wrap

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Here’s a scene from “Always Watching: A Marble Hornets Story.” It’s one of my favorite movies and yes, it’s about Slenderman. (Photo from imdb.com)

Just wrapped up watching two of the better found-footage movies available. I love both “Always Watching: A Marble Hornets Story,” and “Alien Abduction,” two of the better selections in the whole genre. You may not know this about me but I really do love found footage movies. My only problem with the genre is there are so many awful ones out there. Any others that are worth watching that don’t celebrate demons or specialize in straight up gore fests?

His First Car

Small-Town Guy, Big City Thoughts

I got to help a son through a major life stage the other day. His first car. Gaelan Smith chose an ’02 Red Pontiac Grand Prix GTX. Got it with only 170,000 miles on it. I haven’t car shopped in a long time and forgot how much work it is. However, I also forgot how rewarding it is for a kid to have his first car.

Gaelan’s first car is a 2002 Pontiac Grand Prix GTX. It’s got a few things to work on as far as the outside appearance but she’s solid where it counts!

I offer this as an example. Gaelan and I work out regularly at Planet Fitness up in Brooklyn Park. Got out of the car and he hit the lock button. In the short walk from the car to the front door, I watched in the windows along the front of the gym and saw him turn around and look back at the car three times. No reason to. Just wanted to turn and look back at his car. Adorable! Took me back to getting my 1969 sky blue Chevy Nova when I was his age. Good memories. Good times!

You really do forget just how much fun it’s NOT to get insurance on cars for kids. Especially teenage boys in red cars.

In other random thoughts, go see the new Aquaman movie. Dang. With all the (well-deserved) guff that DC has taken for its previous movies, they hit a serious home run with this one. I’d say it’s okay to say that, even if you don’t like superhero movies, you will love this one! Comedy. Lots of action. Eye candy for the boys and girls. Heck, even my mother-in-law, Debby Bourgond, wants to go see it. 4.5 out of 5 stars!

Aquaman. Go see it. (Photo from Variety.com)

Speaking of fun things to do, made my first trip to Dave and Buster’s yesterday. When the kids were younger, I thought Chuckie Cheese was game-playing nirvana. Well, D and B up the ante when it comes to video games and food. First of all, the chicken fingers were fantastic. And it only got better from there.

Anyone close to me knows how much I love the superhero games Injustice and Injustice 2. They’re console games for the Xbox One. I had no idea they made Injustice into an arcade game! Braedan Smith was standing next to me when I made my discovery. Turned to him and said, “I think I just cheated on my wife.” I was pretty excited. Highly recommend a family trip to Dave and Buster’s if you have one nearby.

I really tried hard to think of a way to bring this game home with me from Dave and Busters. Didn’t figure it out in time.

Final thought: Just started reading a Stephen King book called Sleeping Beauties. All of the women in the world fall asleep, webbing appears around their heads, and they’re trapped in a coma. Just think about that, fellas. All the women in the world in a coma. Makes me shudder just thinking about it. If you have to ask why, you might wanna try fifth-grade health class all over again.

Later…